According to the magazine, Rodriguez allegedly tried to first cheer Lopez up by reminding her how great of an actress she was and that she’d get an Oscar nomination someday. However, an insider contended that the actress was throwing the biggest pity party ever, which started to weigh heavily on Rodriguez. “He was tired of hearing it. She thought this was her time, so she was really disappointed that they snubbed her. Of course, she wasn’t complaining about it publicly, but she did privately, and A-Rod couldn’t take listening to it anymore,” the source added.